Thursday, December 14, 2023

As Solstice Nears

                                                                                    


I tend to reread this every year at this time. Allow me to encourage those of you who are open to middle grade type books to recommend this classic.

Like the Narnia books and L'Engle's Wrinkle in Time series, it's fantasy that begins in our everyday reality--which appeals to me more than high fantasy set in a magical kingdom. I suppose it's because it allows me to believe that the magical is all around us, walking beside us if only we pay attention.

Anyway, I love this book, and the rest of the series. And I came to them as an adult, albeit an adult who enjoys children's lit. I'm looking forward to sinking back into it.

Now for something completely different. Josie did this picture of her mom charting--working at her laptop on her patients' records. It looks just like her.

                                               


And while I was working on my holiday cards, I offered Josie one of my inked outlines to color. I love her take on it.

                                                          


Wednesday, December 13, 2023

Hoar Frost

                                                                                 


                                                                           



   






Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Another No Snow Snow Day

                                                                                     


                        No school again yesterday so I stayed with Meema and Grumpy.  "I need some glass cleaner," I told Meema, and I got to work. The dogs put their noses on the windows and leave nose prints. So I took care of that.                                                            


  Meema has a decoration that is a tiny toy wagon and she put it on her shelf with some Christmas stuff. It was perfect for the Castle People and they played with it a lot.



We made banana bread. It was Meema's grandmother's recipe and Meema used to help her, just like I helped Meema. I mashed the bananas. Meema's grandmother was Ruby and she is my great great grandmother.
 

   I can use the electric mixer all by myself.

                                                                                    


                                         Also I put more ornaments on the tree and moved the packages that needed to go under it. Meema said I was a big help.                                   


I like doing helping stuff. So I went and got the little vacuum cleaner and did the rugs.

The banana bread finally got done! It had to cool and we put it on the very same cooling racks Meema and her grandmother used to use. 

It was delicious and I took some home to my mom and dad. I think it is better than the kind Meema and Ruby used to make because I insisted on adding chocolate chips. Meema wasn't sure but I told her that everything is better with chocolate. 

And it is.

                                                


Monday, December 11, 2023

Moros y Christianos

                                                              


AKA black beans and rice. A Spanish/Cuban favorite from my Tampa childhood. 

For some time now, we've been trying to have meatless suppers every other night. This is a tasty, easy treat.

First, I sauté chopped onion, green pepper, and garlic in olive oil. Then I stir in a can (undrained) of black beans and a packet of Goya Sazon.  A bit of dried oregano and finally, about a quarter cup of red wine. 

The wine is not traditional, but I tried it some time ago and it made the beans much tastier and somehow better rounded in flavor.

Top with chopped raw onion and a bit of olive oil and vinegar. A baked sweet potato is a good accompaniment. (Sauteed plantains would be even better.) And a tomato salad.

Muy bueno!

Sunday, December 10, 2023

Fogged In

                                                                                                                                                                  


After a most welcome rain in the night, the fog filled the holler and wrapped itself about the house for almost the entire day.

Which was just as well because I had a popcorn/cranberry chain to string (about 30 feet; most of the day) and a few cards to paint when I was tired of stringing.

John got the tree in place and the lights on. Today we'll finish up. 

                                                        





                                                                                      

Saturday, December 9, 2023

Making Christmas/Holiday Cards

                                                             

           

I was planning to make cards with the little red-hatted gnome I've used the past few years. But somehow this is what I find myself doing.

Making the cards is repetitive, for sure. Batches of six at a time; I need around forty. 

 It's also a kind of meditation, a mantra. I don't pray, believing as I do that if there were a good god in charge of things, they wouldn't be letting bad things happen.  But making these cards is as near to prayer as I get.

                                                                                              

I was making dove linocuts for holiday cards, back during the Vietnam war. And fifty-some years later, here I am, painting doves with Ukraine/Russia and Palestine/ Israel on my mind. 

Peace. 

Is it even possible?

                                                                                     



Friday, December 8, 2023

Snow(less) Day for Josie

                                                                                 

Wednesday there was no school. It was a snow day, but it didn't snow here. But some kids live higher up and the roads might be dangerous, so we all got a day off. 

I gave Meema a music lesson. I sang and she rang a bell when I pointed to it and shook the tambourine when I pointed to it, and she had to STOP when I banged on my drum. She did okay but sometimes she wouldn't stop. I think I could be a good music teacher and I bet my students would do what I said.
                                                               
Grumpy made a fire in the stove in The Room so it was nice and warm. I made a zoo with the Legos and had people ride in the zoo car to see the animals. There is a penguin and a toucan and an elephant and a giraffe.
                                                     

I brought up Rose and Lily and Sally from my house so they could have a play date with Dolly and Margo.
                                                 
                                                

Meema and I read stories about Fly Guy who is the pet of a boy named Buzz. I can read almost every word. I also did some coloring. This is Rapunzel

Jenny and Bailey watched.

Snow days are lots of fun, even if there's no snow.




Thursday, December 7, 2023

Breathe . . .

                                                                                 


When in the midst of holidaze,
 sometimes it's good to take a break.

Wednesday, December 6, 2023

Speaking Freely

                                                                               


 I generally sleep soundly. But a few nights ago, I found myself awake in the dark hours, agonizing over the situation in Gaza and the West bank, as well as in Israel.

(I am distressed by the assumption some make that any criticism of Israel's government or Zionism in general is anti -semitic, shutting down in advance legitimate discourse. Myself, I distinguish between the Jewish people in general and the current government of Israel. And between the Palestinians, in general, and Hamas.)

The situation is dreadful. There are no easy answers--perhaps there are no answers. 

Of course, the murder and hostage taking of Israeli civilians was terrible. Of course, the Israeli government responded.

But the response is looking increasingly like genocide, ethnic cleansing. 

As I told a Jewish friend, early in this struggle, a time machine would be helpful--if we could revisit the Balfour Declaration which sought to establish a Jewish homeland in Palestine, partially in sympathy for what the Holocaust had done to the Jewish people and partially to avoid taking in all the refugees. (Boatloads had already been turned away.)                                                                         


And I find myself wondering. What recourse do the Palestinians have? Forced from most of their homeland, living in mandated areas under military occupation and the steady, government-encouraged encroachment of settlers.  Would Hamas have flourished had a two-state solution been worked out? 

Another question that troubles me. Do Bible-believing evangelicals see this conflict as the necessary prelude to the Apocalypse and the Second Coming?  Those same Bible believers who say God gave Israel to the Jews? Are they quietly cheering things on?

Yet another example of the harm religion does. No wonder I stay awake.



    

Tuesday, December 5, 2023

Looking East

                                                                                          


                  This is my view every morning while I'm sitting on the toy chest at the foot of my bed, putting on my socks.                                                              


I am so immensely fortunate. 

 (These are in reverse chronological order.) 
                                                                                  


Monday, December 4, 2023

It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like . . .


Sunday was a flurry of gift wrapping and getting ready the stuff to be mailed. 


Next up, get rid of the autumn decor and let loose the red and green. John will get the tree on Friday and we'll decorate it over the weekend. And put the presents under it. 

Whew!


 

Sunday, December 3, 2023

Standoff

                                                                               


Corycat here, taking a long-overdue stand. This smelly hound has run wild long enough, stealing food, howling, acting like she owns the place. 

Well. I find her bed very comfortable, and, like a tree planted by the river, I shall not be moved. No matter how hard she stares at me.


Oh, she's being all casual now, giving me a chance to leave quietly.  Nope, not leaving. Sorry, Jennykins. You can just sit there and watch me enjoy this very comfy bed. . . 



Editorial update: I (The Woman) removed Corycat bodily and put her on my bed so Jenny could rest up after a lot of howling. Corycat and Angeline always sleep on my bed. This bold annexation was a first for Corycat, and Jenny didn't do anything but wait for me to deal with the situation. 

Animal politics.



Saturday, December 2, 2023

The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O'Farrell

                                                                         


When I learned that this book was inspired by Browning's My Last Duchess--one of my favorite poems, I knew I'd want to read it. And I wasn't disappointed.

Based (loosely) on the life of Lucrezia de Medici and her marriage to Alfonso II d'Este, Duke of Ferrara and himself probably the inspiration for Browning's poem, the novel is set in Italy in the mid-1500s. 

O'Farrell's opulent prose draws the reader in to the lavish lifesyle of the Italian ducal courts, while her sensitive portrayal of character brings these historic figures to life. 

The powerful Alfonso needs a heir and, after his first choice for a wife dies, he turns to her sister, 13-year-old Lucrezia, daughter of the Grand Duke of Tuscany and his wife Eleonora, known as La Fecundissima for the many healthy children she has borne. Like Henry VIII, the guy is obsessed. And a bit of a control freak.

After almost a year goes by and no pregnancy, things begin to go very badly indeed.

I really admire the way O'Farrell contrived a better, less tragic ending for the little duchess than history relates. After all, this is historical fiction. And who knows, it could have happened this way.

Here's the poem:


My Last Duchess

FERRARA

That’s my last Duchess painted on the wall,
Looking as if she were alive. I call
That piece a wonder, now; Fra Pandolf’s hands
Worked busily a day, and there she stands.
Will’t please you sit and look at her? I said
“Fra Pandolf” by design, for never read
Strangers like you that pictured countenance,
The depth and passion of its earnest glance,
But to myself they turned (since none puts by
The curtain I have drawn for you, but I)
And seemed as they would ask me, if they durst,
How such a glance came there; so, not the first
Are you to turn and ask thus. Sir, ’twas not
Her husband’s presence only, called that spot
Of joy into the Duchess’ cheek; perhaps
Fra Pandolf chanced to say, “Her mantle laps
Over my lady’s wrist too much,” or “Paint
Must never hope to reproduce the faint
Half-flush that dies along her throat.” Such stuff
Was courtesy, she thought, and cause enough
For calling up that spot of joy. She had
A heart—how shall I say?— too soon made glad,
Too easily impressed; she liked whate’er
She looked on, and her looks went everywhere.
Sir, ’twas all one! My favour at her breast,
The dropping of the daylight in the West,
The bough of cherries some officious fool
Broke in the orchard for her, the white mule
She rode with round the terrace—all and each
Would draw from her alike the approving speech,
Or blush, at least. She thanked men—good! but thanked
Somehow—I know not how—as if she ranked
My gift of a nine-hundred-years-old name
With anybody’s gift. Who’d stoop to blame
This sort of trifling? Even had you skill
In speech—which I have not—to make your will
Quite clear to such an one, and say, “Just this
Or that in you disgusts me; here you miss,
Or there exceed the mark”—and if she let
Herself be lessoned so, nor plainly set
Her wits to yours, forsooth, and made excuse—
E’en then would be some stooping; and I choose
Never to stoop. Oh, sir, she smiled, no doubt,
Whene’er I passed her; but who passed without
Much the same smile? This grew; I gave commands;
Then all smiles stopped together. There she stands
As if alive. Will’t please you rise? We’ll meet
The company below, then. I repeat,
The Count your master’s known munificence
Is ample warrant that no just pretense
Of mine for dowry will be disallowed;
Though his fair daughter’s self, as I avowed
At starting, is my object. Nay, we’ll go
Together down, sir. Notice Neptune, though,
Taming a sea-horse, thought a rarity,
Which Claus of Innsbruck cast in bronze for me!