Words and pictures from the author of And the Crows Took Their Eyes as well as the Elizabeth Goodweather Appalachian Mysteries . . .
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Soup and Cornbread
Friday, November 24, 2023
WIth a Thankful Sigh of Relief
Alas, I didn't take any pictures of the feast. But it was delicious and memorable, with contributions from all.
I've been getting ready since Monday. In fact, I was so beforehand that, aside from putting the turkey in the oven early in the morning, I didn't have much to do, foodwise, till around 11:30.
John and Justin, meanwhile, were in a whirlwind of vacuuming and moving furniture so we could have a big table in the middle of the living room.
It was a lovely day and when it was over, John and Justin did dishes and returned the furniture to where it belonged.
Looking at the restored living room where 11 of us had so recently been gathered around a table covered with Thanksgiving fare and bottles of bubbly, John said that the day almost could have been a dream.
And so it was.
Now, in response to Gwen's request for the Huguenot Torte recipe, half of which was shown in my post about the pumpkin pie, here's the full thing. I have to say I've never made it, but it does sound good.
Maybe in a month or so I'll be hungry again.
Thursday, November 23, 2023
Wednesday, November 22, 2023
Game On!
Yesterday I braved the grocery store for more Thanksgiving provisions and as I was pushing the buggy out to my car, a cheerful woman with her own buggy loaded ccalled out, "Well, we got one hard part done!"
"Yep, " I replied, "now for the cooking."
Her car was next to mine and after she returned her buggy to the corral, she came over and just started handing me the bags I was loading into my car. "Makes it a little easier with someone handing them to you," she said. And it did,
When we were done, I thanked her profusely and wished her a Happy Thanksgiving.
"Happy Thanksgiving to you too," she said, "And Merry Christmas. I'm not politically correct."
"Well, Merry Christmas to you!" I replied. "And a Happy Hannukah, and Kawanza, and everything else! "
I kinda felt like I'd been visited by the Spirit of Thanksgiving.
Friday, November 25, 2022
Thursday, November 24, 2022
Wednesday, November 23, 2022
Re-Arranging Perceptions
There was a small kerfuffle on a Facebook group I follow. Someone wondered why in the world people would use paper plates for a Thanksgiving feast and, rather promptly, other people told her--disability, rather spend time with family than washing dishes, etc. After major pushback the original poster amended her post to apologize and to say that now she understood.
It reminded me of something I wrote maybe twenty years ago...
It’s the Tuesday before Thanksgiving
and I’m at the grocery store. The
weather is cold and snowy, and I’ve skipped painting class to get ready for
Thursday. My shopping cart is piled high
with raw ingredients – a 20-pound turkey, celery, onions, kale, cranberries,
butter, whipping cream – okay, there are two
bags of cornbread stuffing and several cans of pumpkin puree and chicken broth,
but in my mind, these are raw ingredients.
In the checkout line, I study the
tabloids; I have only the vaguest idea who Jen and Brad are so I turn my
attention to the shopping cart ahead of me – paper plates, plastic cups,
pre-made pie crusts, a can of lemon meringue filling (I mentally taste the
artificial flavoring and my worst fears are confirmed as six jars of pale brown
gravy slide down the belt.) There are
two large bags of frozen broccoli florets and I silently congratulate the
benighted shopper for not having succumbed to the lure of the canned green
bean, mushroom soup, and canned fried onion casserole. But I am inwardly appalled at the idea of a
Thanksgiving dinner with such uninspired ingredients. Then the cashier says to the tired-looking
woman, whose groceries these are, “Big family Thanksgiving?”
A beautiful smile illuminates the
weary shopper’s face. “Yes, we’ll all be
together,” she replies softly, as though caressing each word.
Her happiness is transcendent
and suddenly my perceptions swing around in a dizzying 180-degree shift. It’s not always about the food. 
Friday, November 26, 2021
Where's Josie?
Thursday, November 25, 2021
Thankful and Mindful
I'm a fan of Thanksgiving--when considered as a harvest festival and a gathering of family and friends. Uncontaminated by the pressure of gift-giving and/or religious observations, it's a nice holiday.
But I'm not talking about the sanitized Thanksgiving version I was taught in primary school, complete with Pilgrims in tall black construction paper hats and friendly Indians in construction paper feather headdresses, cheerfully sharing food with the same people who were stealing their land and would massacre and enslave many of them.
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving!
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
It's Not About the Food
The turkey -- from the grocery store, not one of the wild one we watched all summer -- is defrosting in the basement. I've made some smoked salmon and cream cheese spread to go with the Bloody Marys before the feast. I've even made some almond brittle to top the pumpkin chiffon pie I'll be making later today.
There'll just be seven or eight of us this year -- and as I work my way down the list of things to do, I think of a piece I wrote about five years ago. Apologies if you've read it before.








