Thursday, September 18, 2025

My Shortened Life

                                                       



 In sixth grade, I was the tallest in my class and very thin. When I got off the train returning from summer camp in NC, my mother cried, saying I looked like someone liberated from a concentration camp.

I felt fine and had lots of energy. My height didn't bother me, except at dancing class where I always loomed over potential partners. On the plus side was the fact that I could consume huge amounts of food without gaining weight. 

But my mother, looking into the future and envisioning a skinny giant of an old maid, hanging about the house, decided to seek medical intervention.

And so, in the summer after the seventh grade, I was taken to a clinic in north Georgia that specialized in aberrations of human growth.  It was a very weird experience-- all I really remember was a building with few windows and before and after pictures of naked children standing next to a measuring chart. I really hoped I wouldn't have my picture taken like that.

I must have been x-rayed at some point for I remember the doctor telling my mother that my wrist bones were still hollow which meant I could grow a good bit more--maybe to over six feet.

To my mother, that was a catastrophe. So steps were taken. I think a series of shots, maybe steroids, were prescribed. I don't remember having an opinion or being asked for one--it just happened.

I topped out at a little over 5'8"--though age and two pregnancies have taken away an inch. 

Sometimes I've wondered what my life would have been like at over six feet--no big deal for a woman these days but kinda freakish back in the Fifties. A model? A Rockette? An athlete? (Despite my total lack of suitability or ability for any of these.)

But now, after having done a bit of online snooping, I find that there is NO approved method for limiting growth short (!) of, in rare cases, surgery to reduce leg length. 

So what was I given? Was this some sort of experiment? And did it work or not?

I'll probably never know. 

UPDATE: Claui sent me this link which explains a lot.  


                                                 




6 comments:

Anvilcloud said...

I find this shocking. The norms and attitudes that infest us.

Vicki Lane said...

So do I--in retrospect.

Marcia said...

Did you ever talk about this with you mother when you were an adult?
I've heard of treatments for the opposite - children not growing. A family we knew years ago had their youngest daughter in some kind of program to increase her growth. I don't know how it turned out except I think the daughter had a child as a teen. Maybe that was the result?

Sandra Parshall said...

When I have been with you, Vicki, I haven't even noticed your height. I would just like to add this:
Gwendoline Christie: 6'3"
Elizabeth Debicki: 6'3"
Aisha Tyler: 6'0"
Geena Davis: 6'0"
Uma Thurman: 6'0"
Brooke Shields: 6'0"
Sigourney Weaver: 6'0"
Nicole Kidman: 5'11"
Zendaya: 5'10"
Blake Lively: 5'10"

Barbara Rogers said...

Being tall is certainly ok for just the size you are...where a shorter life implies less time! That took my thoughts in another direction entirely. So sorry your childhood had those memories!

Vicki Lane said...

I don't think I did. It's not something I thought about much.